5'4" 156 pounds
Q) Shirley, thanks for doing this interview. Please tell us about your butt kicking life!
A) I really hope your subscribers don't mind seeing my old face and body. The only thing that gives me hope is that some young men still want to feel my muscles and like what I can do with them on the mats. I have been doing self-defense for over forty years. I am sixty five, mother of three, grandmother of six. I am have been working out with weights and challenging cardio for over thirty years. I have a black belt in Jeet Kune Do and have also studied Malaysian Silat, Krav Maga, JiuJitsu and Kung Fu.
Q) Wow! Can you tell us more about younger men being attracted to you?
A) Well, well, I don't know if "attracted" is the right word but they are turned on. Men get turned on by females with muscles, by losing to females and other associated things. I have had guys feel my muscles and I could see them get hot and bothered. Trust me, guys still get turned on in those close grappling situations as well.
Q) What do you do when a guy feels your muscles or is grappling with you and you notice he is turned on?
A) I am an old hippee, doesn't bother me. If he feels my muscles I may ask if he likes what he's seeing and feeling. If we are on the mats I try to get the victory and then joke around with him about the change in his body's blood flow LOL.
Q) Are you married? If so what does your husband think of your abilities?
A) He is proud of me. He is about 6'1" and 180 pounds. I will sometimes joke with him that if he was like some of these disrespectful men I hear about I'd feed him his own nuts for dinner.
Q) Wow! Could you?
A) Well, I am not sure if it's literally possible, but I can defeat him.
Q) Does he mind you on the mats with other men who may be getting aroused?
A) No because they are also getting their butts kicked usually LOL. Not all the time, many guys can defeat me in various combat situations but those run of the mill types can't, even at 65.
Q) Can you share a time you defeated a guy and he got very turned on?
A) I will tell you about one of the more recent ones. One of the gentleman I just so happen to see weekly at church. We are Unitarian and this nice young man, thirty two I believe, comes with his wife and three small children each week. Fortunately he came alone to the dojo! His instructor had his grapple with me. Poor soul did what he could but he wasn't able to mount any offense. I had him tied in knots and was starting the beginning of the end with him, a choke and body scissors. We were positioned in a way where his penis was right there, hard, standing up and quite visible in his shorts. There was nothing ambiguous going on at all. By now it was just us which I was glad for. He tapped out but not before his penis shook with probably excitement and maybe a little fear. Right when I let him go he moved in an odd way. I was un-choking him slowly and removing my legs from their constricted state around him. Another off movement and I looked down and he was inadvertently shooting off his load. His groin area was soaking wet. I had never had quite that happen before. He just said oh my god and apologized, he looked so ashamed. I tried being totally unsurprised, didn't want him to feel bad or abnormal. I told him it was all normal. I joked with him and still do but we don't go around telling people.
Q) How did it feel for you to be able to do that to a man half your age?
A) Sexy. If he wasn't married he may have been in trouble with me!
Q) Have you ever grabbed a man's privates when defeating him?
A) For now, let me stick to telling you about my husband. More will be told later. On the occasion we grapple he knows that the winner will take what she wants. I get satisfaction by dominating him. Using his private area for my own creative means. What can be more sexy than ownership of your husband from head to toe? Key to a happy marriage? I think I have it!
Q) We look forward to hearing more soon! Can you tell us about how strong you are?
A) I workout with weights four times a week. I use thirty pound dumbells to curl, I bench press 135 for 2 good reps and my legs are really strong. I don't squat as much anyone, I do more reps with less weight but that still means 200 pounds for 8 reps. I have brutal punches, kicks and apply powerful holds which comes from the physical strength I have.
Q) How do your children and grandchildren feel about your amazing abilities?
A) My grandchildren are 3 months to fourteen years. My oldest two grandchildren are pretty amused. Both are boys and think it's super cool, both the muscles and that I can "kick butt". When they were little I would throw them around, but now maybe it would embarrass them. My two daughters love it and are quite proficient at self-defense. My son avoids the topic LOL.
Q) Curious, can you defeat your sons in law and son?
A) Little old me? I'm an old lady LOL. My sons in law are married to women who can keep them in line, they don't need me to! If I had to could I? I don't think it would be an issue. My son is a momma's boy. I don't think it would be an issue there anyways.
Q) What is your philosophy about kicking, kneeing, punching or squeezing a man's balls for self-defense?
A) Yes, yes, yes and yes! It's self-defense, do what you must. I am very good at placing kicks, knees, punches and using squeezes on a man's privates. Of course, it's just practice, but I like going to that region. I know several unique ways to instruct women especially to cause pain to a man's private area. I especially enjoy the holds, squeezes and pulls.
Q) Have you used these holds, squeezes and pulls on many men?
A) I admit I have. It's the only way to test it out, right?! I have defeated men and then, if they are, well, agreeable (hard) I may do some work and have some fun by controlling them with their most special of areas. I am a fun loving hippy at heart and have a streak of Female Power inside of me. Making a man beg for mercy as I have his nuts subdued or maybe leading him around by his penis, things like that. Maybe the whole self-defense thing appeals to me because I am a dominant personality in and out of the bedroom. Anyways, we all are entitled to be happy and it makes me happy to engage in some emasculation of gentlemen from time to time.
Q) Thanks for emailing me, absolutely Shirley, would love to hear about you and your husband!
A) Well, as I mentioned, he is about nine inches taller than me and thirty pounds heavier. He is substantial enough of a man where it's fun to absolutely cream his ass. If he were smaller I don't think I would relish it quite so much. Typically, I make him afraid first that I will trap and abuse his head. Then I I take his arm. When I have his arm I can really go to work because he is so concerned about his shoulder and elbow. So I make him tire himself out and work over his mid-section and basically everything else. I don't mess with his private parts yet. We do several falls and I know I giggle more and more with each time he taps out. I also begin getting happier and happier each time. I begin to feel dominant and like I own this much taller and heavier man. I start to get a buzz, electricity in the air. I start to sense something coming over me. Looking at him, I know that something is coming over him as well. Finally there is a point where the actual wrestling is over and the domination begins. There is no need anymore to wrestle and see who wins because that is already determined. I like to take his clothes off to make him more vulnerable, fully transparent. I like to showcase a newly purchased lingerie combo. I put on heels and basically stalk him. I do things like slap his face, his ass and his balls. He knows I love him but he also, I am sure, worries about if I may have gone crazy and may hurt him. It's that nervousness or uncertainty that makes it sexy. I love kissing so I will make out with him as he's pinned. I also get him very worked up sexually. I play around with his privates until I decide he has earned the right to have some sex. It gives me the sex I want and the dominance I want.